When readings go bad

After a while once you’ve done a few reading for yourself wether you’re a medium, tarot reader or whatever you start to get game to do them for others. Most of the time it goes ok and then that one time it goes a bit awry. This post is about just that when readings go awry.

Now things can go a bit wrong for a few reasons.

Firstly the person you’re reading for is being resistant. Sometimes when you read for people they don’t like what you have to say. They don’t like the message because you’re not telling them what they want to hear. They fight you every step of the way and question what you’re saying. You can explain until you’re blue in the face but if someone doesn’t want to hear their ex is happy and doesn’t want to get back with them, there is nothing in the world will make them hear you. If it’s not there it’s not there. Sometimes they don’t like the way you read because you do It different to someone else or how they saw it in a movie or on TV. That again is on them because everyone had a different process. I’m not wrong because I don’s shuffle the way another tarot card reader does or I dont work with guides or a certain lay out.

Sometimes you’re too hard on yourself or trying too hard. Out of all the things that can go wrong this is the worst. You are nervous or excited about finally reading for other people and you want to do  good job so you put crazy pressure on yourself. It’ll make you second guess what you’re getting or your interpretations. Stop, relax, breathe. It’s ok to be prepared but like anything if you put too much pressure on yourself you’ll choke.

The last way it can go a bit awry is thats you’re not clear about what you’re doing. If you’re not centered and focus your readngs can get confusing. You can get mixed readings where you’re not sure if they’re for you or your client. You’re not confident so you bombard the client with information and they’re confused. Sometimes the client wants to know everything and isn’t clear about what they want to know. If this happens stop, take a breath, zero in on your question and go again. If its a total write off try and reschedule your reading for a time when you can focus.

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